What's the dress code?

Cocktail Attire (but if you know Alyssa, you know she always dresses to impress!). 

Ladies: Dresses at or below the knee—no "day dress" style, as this isn’t a typical venue, and we’d love to elevate the space with everyone looking sharp! Be mindful of your heel height so you’re comfortable for the reception.

Gentlemen: Formal attire, no tuxedos needed, but we’d love everyone to look sharp in a suit and tie.

And of course, please do not wear white—we’ve got that covered!

Due to limited space, we can only can accommodate guests formally listed on your invitation.

Short answer — both!
We’re blending traditions from each of our faiths and families. The ceremony will include elements from both Jewish and Catholic customs, including a chuppah and an altar. It will take place on the back porch of The Parker House.
We kindly ask all guests to honor and respect both religions and the love that brings them together.

Nope — we’re doing things a little differently!
There won’t be a separate cocktail hour, seated dinner, or seating chart. Instead, we’re having one big, grand cocktail-style reception all night long.
Mix, mingle, drink, eat, dance, and celebrate with us — just the way we like it!

All events on Saturday, October 18th will take place at The Parker House, located at 290 1st Ave & Beacon Blvd, Sea Girt, NJ 08750. Please arrive by 3:45 PM for the Chuppa (Wedding Ceremony)  and the party will last until 10 PM. 

We recommend Uber if you're staying at one of our recommended hotels, or you can park on Ocean Ave  & Beacon Blvd and take a short 1-block walk to The Parker House.

We’re all about celebrating in a way that feels right for everyone! While we love our sober bride (8 years sober and counting!), there will be a premium open bar. But don’t worry—there will also be a dedicated mocktail bar and plenty of sober guests who will keep the party going!

Nope, sorry!  We love your kids but this is an adults-only celebration.

If you have any questions text Alyssa 323-422-3961 or Gary 818-601-0055.

Will there be transportation to the venue from the hotels?

Yes! On Saturday, October 18 (our wedding day), a trolley will provide pickups and drop-offs at The Chateau and The Grand Victorian hotels.

If you are staying at a different residence or hotel, please plan to make your way to one of these two hotels for pickup.

Trolley time: 3:00–3:35 (last pick up at 3:35 PM sharp) — the trolley will depart on time!

Be on the lookout for this trolley left

Welcome dinner is dressy casual; Sunday brunch is casual and relaxed.

There will be gluten free, vegatarian and pescatarian options for guests with restrictions

No, unfortunately, there won’t be transportation back to the hotels after the wedding or after party. Feel free to ghost us or pull an Irish goodbye, call an uber — we promise we won’t take it personally, we'll see you at Brunch sunday morning!